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How to Motivate Teenagers

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"Tell your child  - You have to do what you   have   to do so you can do what you   want   to do.' Most Children have the underlying drive to be motivated enough its just that they need to be introduced to the reason for the objective. What they need is a 'why' and they always want to know, “Why am I doing this? Why is this Science project important to me?” And the answer  can’t  be, “Because I told you so.” The answer can’t even necessarily be “because this is your school work.” There has to be something within your child that pushes him past the inconveniences, the shortcomings, and the hiccups that will, without question, arise when he undertakes something that’s challenging. So it’s important for kids to understand  why  they want to do something, not just that they have to do it. When they finally understand how something benefits them, they will do it long term. If the reason your child does something is only because it’s importan...

PEER PRESSURE

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Though we all have a fair idea of what it means………let us still begin by understanding the term Peer Pressure – It is a Social pressure by members of one's peer group to take a certain action, adopt certain values, or otherwise conform in order to be accepted. Scene at a store in a mall – Three teenagers at a candy store..one of them a bit hesitantly trying to slip in candy unnoticed into her handbag and the other two egging her on…’come on…we dare you…You can…..we are sure…’…and she does it..Heart thumping and palms sweating... but she manages a cool demeanor as she walks out of the store to her grinning friends waiting outside.    First timer that she is....she blurts out – “OMG  - I would not have shop lifted normally but you guys made me do it..” Friends insist that it is a cool act…but she knows sans the pressure  by her friends she would never have done it. WELCOME TO THE WORLD OF PEER PRESSURE!!! How these groups come about is worth ...